I am married to an ongologist for 16years. Actually, Mormon families are shrinking, just like those outside the Church, but they will always be larger than families outside Mormondom. In five short days. It means that before anything else, you have to be clear in saying that you want to date a Mormon girl.
However, that doesn't mean I am in a situation where I can call or text or anything. I know many other nurses that also married young docs, only to have the marriage fail. By that I mean that we ought to consider simply marrying within the faith and in the temple for all the reasons that people have given. I was to late in that. Only the racist comments about why it was enacted have been disavowed. That my heavenly father hates my decision to marry my husband. Also, as Joanna points out, men and women already inhabit a separate culture. I married a person, not a religion.
I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps. When I was 19, my boyfriend considered himself an atheist. It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless.
Can you live your whole life with a husband you doesnt or never will believe in the mormon church. Why prophets are awesome. Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. Loneliness seems to be a part of being a wife of a doc in training, and at times all I can think of is simply getting over a day at a time. Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. Ending sooner rather than later is much easier and less painful for everybody.