I read a ton of your letters and I know you always say people shouldn't snoop on the person they love, but I wasn't snooping. We are sharing a home computer, and I couldn't help but notice the opening line of the email that was sent to her. It said "I need you now. It looks like this has been going on for a long time behind my back. This woman who my wife has been loving on has a husband who is in the same battalion as me and I know him. I guess funny things happen on these small Army posts in the middle of nowhere. When the men are away, the wives will play -- and I do mean play with each other. I may be using humor, but finding this out cuts me deep like a knife in the chest. She's been carrying on behind my back, maybe in front of our two children, for all I know. As you would say, here's the deal: I confronted her.
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These feelings built up over a few years, and when we were drunk one night, I told her. She said she felt the same. Later we met and chatted, but the net result is, because of her friendship with my wife, nothing could happen. She is now in another relationship and has moved on. I think she represents everything that is missing in my current marriage — the spark for me has gone. Is this normal for a marriage of 10 years? Should I be content with a woman who loves me, or does it mean I have some sort of mental issue for not being able to move on and enjoy life? I think of her having sex with other people and it tears me apart. Whether or not you were to hook up with this current object of your desire, I have a feeling you are still capable of spending the rest of your life in regret.
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Infidelity is one of the more challenging problems faced in a relationship. While many people are blindsided if and when they find out about a spouse or partner cheating, others may suspect it because of actions that are out of the norm. While everyone is different, and few signs of cheating are definitive, there are certain behaviors that, together, may back up your unfortunate hunch. Behavior changes, curious actions, and odd occurrences can certainly indicate that a partner is having an affair. That said, it's important to remember that that is not always the case. If you suspect that your partner is cheating, it is understandable to want a definitive way to prove your suspicion. While things like stepping outside to talk on the phone could be related to infidelity, there may be other explanations. Consider the following possible signs that your partner is not being faithful. As you can see, some of these signs actually are at odds with one another.
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