And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands. Most of them have affairs. You'll know pretty quick where she stands. Might be worth working through the missionary lessons and CES letter to see if they can agree at least to disagree.
I google searched for support with tears running down my face. He just started studying for the boards. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim.
OP Have you seen the Brother Jake videos. My husband is a surgical oncologist. What can you expect. It gives people a sense of purpose, while pressuring them to be 'good' by their book. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. Eternity is a long time. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. A shitty sex life, potentially. I expect to give up my career once he finishes his training and we start a family. Be specific every time you ask.
By the end of the first date with my husband I knew I wanted him to be a part of my life. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. I forgot to add, that if you marry and alow your children to be raised as Mormon, chances are you wont be able to be at their wedding because it will be in the temple. Log in or sign up in seconds.